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6 Relationship RED FLAGS That Are Shockingly Toxic
Posted by Matthew, 04 Nov
What are your biggest red flags when it comes to dating? Have you thought about them?
In this recent conversation I had with Dr. Tracy and Dr. Morgan, you’ll learn how to easily identify these 6 critical red flags. We start off with No. 1 . . .
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No.1. THEY CAN’T APOLOGIZE
(I can feel your anger rising already with this one)
Ever been there? I have. And, well, yuck. If you’ve been there, you know that someone who is incapable of apologizing slowly turns us into a crazy person who begins to lose their grip on reality.
I talk all about this, and 5 more we should all be aware of, in my new video.
Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.
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