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Get Too Obsessed When You Like Someone?

Posted by Matthew, 04 Apr

We’ve all done it. We start to like someone and suddenly we’ve built a whole narrative around what our future could look like with them. They feel like a rare antidote we’ve stumbled across that will take us out of being single and into the relationship we so badly want.

The issue is, in the process of doing this, we rob ourselves of the ability to enjoy the experience—too stuck in our heads to be in the moment.

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We also run the risk of self-sabotaging as we try to see danger where there isn’t any.

In this brand-new video, I share an easy and grounding phrase you can use RIGHT NOW to calm yourself down if you find yourself in this situation.

Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert and author. His latest dating book Get The Guy is a New York Times bestseller. He's the go-to relationship expert for Rachael Ray, Katie Couric, Ryan Seacrest, Meredith Vieira and many others. And he's a relationship columnist for Cosmopolitan magazine and the resident love expert for "The Today Show." Here he shares his proven strategies to get a man to do anything you want, from tirelessly pursuing you to treating you like a goddess to committing to you for life.

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  1.   DimpledRebel says:
    Posted: 17 Jun 23

    Thank you!

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  2.   Luvforyou says:
    Posted: 02 Nov 22

    Well i don't care what the woman looks like, and how aggressive she is. If she is 4 foot tall or 9ft tall, if she is 99 lbs or over 400 lbs. And she can get as obsessive as she want. My problem is seems like men hurt so many women that they are afraid to make a move or trust. I understand being careful and watching out for red flags but i ran into many girls who give the third degree and even if nubers are exchanged still get third degree. And please ladies don't give any money out to anyone unless you meet them and see if they need the money. Sorry got off track,lol just some of us love the obsessive person.

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  3.   Sunshine_68 says:
    Posted: 23 Apr 22

    am looking for a good man

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