He Lost the Game, but Won at Love
Breanna’s stint on our site was her first attempt at online dating. And, like many first-timers, she had her doubts. “I was always skeptical about meeting someone online,” she admits. “But I was still looking…”
She’d been on and off the site for a couple of months when she spotted it. “That smile,” she marvels. “It was that smile [that got my attention].” The member with the username “Nshaw34” had a grin she couldn’t get enough of, so she sent him a Flirt.
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The pearly whites belonged to Nolan, another newcomer to online personals. “I was just looking for the right person,” he explains. “But I wasn’t confident at all when I first started.”
Nolan had only been online for a few months when he suddenly got the Flirt from “Charesebre19” (Breanna), who sparked his interest the moment he saw her profile. “Her eyes were beautiful!” He exclaims.
Nolan didn’t hesitate to let her know how much he was interested. “He actually gave me his number,” laughs Breanna. “I suppose we were ready to meet for a date, since we had been texting nonstop every day!”
They had their first date at Dave & Busters, the restaurant famous for its arcade games. This was a perfect place for Breanna to prove her skills. “I won every game we played!” she says proudly. Nolan had no problem with that, jumping in with a quick, “You mean you CHEATED on every game we played!” The newly minted couple laugh at what has clearly become an affectionate joke between them.
Although she was a little nervous at the start, Breanna’s first thought on finally meeting face-to-face was, “Wow, he smells really good.” Nolan admits to being tense, too, but the feeling dissipated. “It went really well,” he says to recap the evening. “I had actually thought that she might not show up...or even be real!”
But Nolan’s dream girl turned out to have substance after all, and they were both “100% sure” they would go out again. If their first date was a success, subsequent meetings only brought them even closer together.
When asked if there’s anything he appreciates about Breanna that didn’t come across in her profile, Nolan has to think about it a moment, since he’s loved everything about her from the beginning. “She was very caring,” he concludes. Breanna responds, “He’s really someone I can’t see myself without!”
Surprisingly, Breanna confesses that originally she thought that Nolan wasn’t her type. “I would say he’s almost everything I WOULDN’T have gone for!” But it was that smile that did it, and today she’s very glad she noticed it. Nolan admits he didn’t have to struggle too hard to imagine them being together. “She’s pretty similar [to my type],” he says.
Although they were lucky enough to not have to overcome any real obstacles as they became a couple, both will admit to something when asked. For Breanna, it was “accepting his goofy side as well as his serious side.” Nolan simply states, “Communication.”
Finding love has changed the both of them. Breanna says she’s learned that it’s okay to lean on someone a little, and to let go of a little independence, particularly when it might be holding you back. Nolan reports that his new relationship has given him “a positive outlook” on life.
They both want to share a bit of what they’ve learned in their search for love on the Internet. “Keep your head up and stay focused,” advises Breanna. “It’s new and scary, but your other half is looking for you, too!” Nolan agrees, adding, “It’s difficult and frustrating, but stay positive, and be patient.”
93 responses to "He Lost the Game, but Won at Love"
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Babykech says:Posted: 04 Sep 19Congratulations. May your love make way for you in everything that concerns you. Now I know I can find love here too, please wish me luck.
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Pattydennis says:Posted: 20 Jun 19Wow congratulations to all the couples who met here
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Tyna123 says:Posted: 19 Jan 19
Wonderful am hoping to find my Mrs right some day.
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Kodoshe says:Posted: 21 Nov 18Woow I love you guys am praying all time to meet a Man of my dream here, and I will love him with all my heart am really praying daily to meet my husband here ,and I really love this site is a real site which open poeplee there real life may Almighty God bless me with a God fearing Man here. All the Best.
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matshu says:Posted: 08 Nov 18
Congrats,may the good Lord bless your relationship
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Suechris says:Posted: 16 Oct 18Congregation! May god continue to blessed your relationship
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dfkk says:Posted: 01 Oct 18enjoy your love wish you happiness one day I will find my love one have a happy family
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Mwikali96 says:Posted: 23 Mar 18So nice..... Hope to get a real man who will love me and have children together... A good family
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Ritapeters85 says:Posted: 04 Feb 18Interesting love story. We all look forward to meeting our special sparkle some day. Its the only thing we live for
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Manoj900 says:Posted: 24 Aug 18Dear Rita Ji. I love friendship. My name Manoj from India.
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Moonbug714 says:Posted: 24 Jan 18
So wonderful!! I'm hoping to find my "Mr. Right" too!! You guys look beautiful together. Stay blessed!
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Annex17 says:Posted: 15 Jan 18Wow that was very great of her. I wish them a happy new start of theIr lives.
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Tatuonea says:Posted: 30 Dec 17Congratulations to you all but always remember marriage life not easy so don't give up on what you have started....praying to God to bless me too
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jimmy3112 says:Posted: 30 Dec 17hi....
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Badiday says:Posted: 19 Aug 17
Congrats to all couples hope to find love ones someday i pray to god .god bless .
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EvvT4 says:Posted: 11 Aug 17It is so good to meet someone that will love you and you will love him too.
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Julein says:Posted: 03 Aug 17Congratulations to the couple I hope to find my true love too
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cillia1 says:Posted: 20 Jul 17Wow, beautiful couples congratulations to u guy's
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bracky23 says:Posted: 20 Jun 17wow wow wow..this amazing..congratulations!!!!!!!!!
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Progman72 says:Posted: 18 Jun 17Just because they found each other doesn't mean they'll stay together. Relationships are very difficult these days and it's hard to find the right person for a long-term commitment like marriage. I'm just being realistic about it
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HotStel32 says:Posted: 14 Oct 17True sometimes if it was meant to be by God the relationship will go through storms to get stronger
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Mariadiana says:Posted: 03 Jan 18How about You? I am looking for marriage. Maybe You Yourself don't like for longterm relationship and marriage
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Maypapabi says:Posted: 10 Dec 18
Yes but atleast they have found each other and they are together now so let's leave the rest for the future to decide ..
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DassahSexy says:Posted: 22 Dec 18Trust me is because we look at the wrong things in someone cause trust me i have been on the site for not too long most of the guys are not serious always asking for nude pic why? if someone sees wat he likes why not go for it without no evil intension ,am serious minded i just hope i find some one interesting like wise you dear success ❤
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83carl says:Posted: 31 May 17
Some people are so lucky, some men here never want to meet anyone, they just want you to send them nudes. I hope I get lucky sometime.
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Tidaps says:Posted: 13 May 17
Hmmmmm, wonders shall never cease, big congratulations to both of you. Mine is next!!!!
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Omkgo says:Posted: 07 May 17They are so beautiful couples
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zanada says:Posted: 24 Mar 17Congrats to all the couples who found there soulmate.
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felieva says:Posted: 10 Feb 17congrats to all people I hope we have a miracle also will come true
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Siroro-meii says:Posted: 06 Jun 17ho,you just beautiful mams.good looking i love the way you look. am single dad of one baby boy my son is 5yrs old and am working and staying in lihir island PNG
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45honey says:Posted: 23 Nov 16Congz happy for u i pray to God to show me my real love
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Darkchocalte says:Posted: 16 Nov 16
I Haven had alot of luck with dating so I just gave up on finding that one that take's my breath away when were together
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Wylliz4u says:Posted: 13 Nov 16
God bless your new journey of marriage all the best guys
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roseymary says:Posted: 18 Aug 16Oh that wonderful to be pensend end wait for the real love wao congratulate
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bowbow2007 says:Posted: 08 Aug 16
happy ending.God bless your union.just like u, am patiently waitin for my vanilla
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merzsnopy says:Posted: 20 Jul 16Ausome storry. And that's so true think positive.like me Im allwys hopefull someday I culd found one.god blees you guys:
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