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The Real Girl

Posted by Leticia, 05 Jan

For Shantha, joining our site was just “a shot in the dark.” She’d never tried online dating before, and she was skeptical that it would work. Brian had done it before but had no luck. He was leery of the process, too.

Shantha’s profile name was “Skinny_Minni” and she’d only been a member for “about two months” when she was contacted by Brian, who had signed up as “Alltatdup.” The tattooed guy thought the skinny girl had something. “I thought she was beautiful,” Brian confides.

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Shantha read his messages and looked at his profile. “I thought he sounded sweet,” she says.

They started talking by phone and Skype. Before long “we became best friends,” Shantha says. The slow buildup paid off because soon they were ready to meet. There was one problem, though. “I lived in New York City,” Shantha informs us.

Brian nods. “And I lived in Washington state...”

The solution was easy enough. “I flew to Washington!” Shantha declares, beaming. When asked how their first meeting went, she remembers being nervous. Brian saw her and blurted out, “Wow, you’re real!”

After convincing Brian that she was entirely real, Shantha enjoyed their first date immensely. She says they shared “a lot of laughter” and had “a strong connection.” They were positive they would see each other again.

That whole distance thing was an obstacle, though. So Shantha did the only thing that made sense. She relocated. “I live in Washington now!” Shantha explains.

It was a good thing Brian was Shantha’s type, then. “Well...he was close,” she tells us. But she discovered something about him that hadn’t come across in his profile. “He’s such a giving person,” Shantha notes. That only helped her fall for him faster. For Brian, there was no question about it — she was exactly what he was looking for.

They both have a little advice for other online daters looking for love. Shantha advises that singles “keep an open mind, because the person you think is right for you might not actually be.” For her, the guy who turned out to be the right person — Brian — wasn’t what she expected to find on our site.

Brian is happy to share what he thinks. “Look for more than a pretty face,” he suggests. Then he looks at Shantha. “I got lucky!”

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  1.   dezzg says:
    Posted: 14 Nov 16

    i really need one to

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  2.   aya33 says:
    Posted: 14 Nov 16

    That's called destiney

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  3.   Cathy20200 says:
    Posted: 12 Nov 16

    Am praying until something happen

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  4.   cocoboy. says:
    Posted: 19 Oct 16

    that's nice .

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  5.   Jazzieca says:
    Posted: 16 Oct 16

    Love at first sight. I wish I had that luck too.wish you both happy ending.

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  6.   jeyblinx0000 says:
    Posted: 07 Oct 16

    That is nice

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  7.   AG2016 says:
    Posted: 06 Oct 16

    I guess there's still hope. What a beautiful story.

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  8.   Doce28 says:
    Posted: 04 Oct 16

    Encouraging

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  9.   Benduk says:
    Posted: 03 Oct 16

    Wow I hope to meet mine soon

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  10.   Lynda22 says:
    Posted: 02 Oct 16

    Happy for you guys... I give up because I know this can't happen to me

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  11.   sonunagar007 says:
    Posted: 28 Sep 16

    Hi dear how are you

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  12.   Kelvin88 says:
    Posted: 26 Sep 16

    Am really looking forward for tin like this white woman

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  13.   raudhwah says:
    Posted: 25 Sep 16

    Awesome, Hope i will be the nxt to meet my life partner

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  14.   sadre says:
    Posted: 18 Sep 16

    Wow happy ending,well done guys I wish it was me.

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    • Lilian1011 says:
      Posted: 09 Dec 16

      Yeah, it is a happy ending for sure Sadre...but everyone has his or her day and I believe your day will come soon.

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  15.   Asiy says:
    Posted: 30 Aug 16

    I'm quoting Brian "look for more than a pretty face". This certainty speaks volumes. Best of luck to all!!!

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  16.   Davidsz says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 16

    Tooooop very nice buitefoul

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  17.   Davidsz says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 16

    Yes I like all woman

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  18.   Fritzzy says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 16

    I wish is that happen to me

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  19.   334433 says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 16

    Koi Indian he jii

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  20.   334433 says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 16

    Hi

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  21.   Phindil1ous says:
    Posted: 13 Aug 16

    Wow .. I was bout to give up .. All the best

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  22.   Bonirpo says:
    Posted: 07 Aug 16

    Good luck ...wish them the best..

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  23.   Mapilee says:
    Posted: 27 Jul 16

    Wow nice happy for you guys....I wonder what is it that I can do next to meet someone I have waited...prayed ...up and lowered my standard I have been so ready ...and expectant but ...?

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  24.   Wamboibz says:
    Posted: 27 Jul 16

    Woow nice

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  25.   Akpedj says:
    Posted: 26 Jul 16

    Nice

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  26.   citrine_jade says:
    Posted: 22 Jul 16

    Nice!

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  27.   Emma0147 says:
    Posted: 04 Jul 16

    It's very inspiring

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  28.   odeam says:
    Posted: 28 Jun 16

    wow such a beautiful story I wish my will happen soon,wish you guys the best💓💓💓

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  29.   ayush695 says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 16

    I hot and sexy man my whatsp no 8401916375

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  30.   jazmine06 says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 16

    but all in all where there is love there is a way......

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  31.   jazmine06 says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 16

    nice yes but they were lucky to be in the same country unlike some of us who have to pay heavily for membership........??????

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  32.   Zdancer100 says:
    Posted: 04 Jun 16

    I hope that I can be on here with the person I found to love, but I feel like my chances of finding that are slim because as a women with multiple children a lot of men do not want to continue talking after I tell them about my children. I'm going to stay hopeful, and maybe I can find the love of my life

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    • Apacin says:
      Posted: 21 Jun 16

      Hi, Zdancer100... that is not true just keep cam your lucky man will come up to you one day that you have kids dos not mean that you will not find someone that will love you and take care of you i want you to know that your lucky man have not come yet just keep cam and be happy you really meet him someday.

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      • Zdancer100 says:
        Posted: 25 Jun 16

        Thank you so much, I was a little discouraged but your comment has really helped me stay positive and hopeful

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  33.   hsmar says:
    Posted: 30 May 16

    What are you saying am I really?

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  34.   find_love says:
    Posted: 25 May 16

    I love the courage she had. Its true that where there is love there is a way

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  35.   Hikira says:
    Posted: 22 May 16

    Am hoping to leave this site with a special person that's all worth the wait I feel great about it because am just being who I know am and that's confident and with competence. Tk u Roberta

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  36.   chaouki says:
    Posted: 21 May 16

    hello

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  37.   hamja says:
    Posted: 20 May 16

    nice

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  38.   honeyboy26 says:
    Posted: 19 May 16

    You all are wishing u go out an have it. Many of u here are looking for very rich men an women do u all think that is how love work. This guyd up here may just have pure love for each other.

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  39.   Adda1 says:
    Posted: 16 May 16

    you look lovely together

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  40.   Kothar says:
    Posted: 16 May 16

    Pair are made in heaven and made for each other shantha and Brian

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  41.   tyoyo says:
    Posted: 16 May 16

    Great to find happiness.....

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  42.   cachex says:
    Posted: 15 May 16

    Very simple looking girl, i like her type

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  43.   Mabhee says:
    Posted: 15 May 16

    Am happy she found the love of her life. Hope mine still out there comming my way

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  44.   nashim says:
    Posted: 15 May 16

    I wish to find my white man too

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  45.   cherubet says:
    Posted: 15 May 16

    Wow very nice all the best

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  46.   sefla says:
    Posted: 15 May 16

    That's great.....I wish to meet an awesome woman like her soon....and I'm wishing them all the best

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  47.   Mapera says:
    Posted: 14 May 16

    Am happy for shanta may he locate me soon in the mighty name of jesus

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  48.   jack0407 says:
    Posted: 14 May 16

    Hmmm

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  49.   224r says:
    Posted: 14 May 16

    I hope one day I will be blessed like them

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  50.   chi2015 says:
    Posted: 14 May 16

    I am happy for them, I cannot wait to meet with mine

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    • Emma0147 says:
      Posted: 04 Jul 16

      Hope you do..and when you do don't let him go bkus of a few lapses make him be the guy you want....there is no perfect guy out there you have to make him perfect.... wish you luck

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