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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @Mia It is very simple when you log on here go to your home page, now you will see the avatar icon that you usually see instead of your pic. Under that blank avatar you would see the words 'manage photos', click on it.....You will then see almost to the top left corner choose file, click on that too....now this takes you to inside your computer so it helps if you know where you stored your pic(like in your my pictures section)choose which pic you want to upload and click on it,the computer will also prompt you select...The window then comes back to here and to the bottom of the section where you had previously clicked to select file,there is an upload button click there....You will see your pic appear and it has to be approved so leave it till it is done. I hope that helps ,this Trini twang I have hope you understand my writing style. @ Dannyco56 Thanks for the warm invite!

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  2.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    Same to you, Danny-dear.... Don't work TOO hard now...LOL Peace

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  3.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @All I have to go now need to get ready for work. I hope everyone has a blessed day. God Bless! Danny

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  4.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @tatted2death God Morning, I thought it waas just me that could not see Laureltons last posts but maybe it is everyone. Thank you for your kind words. I hope you have a great day. God Bless! Danny

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  5.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    LOL..... ...and what is with certain people claiming to "have dates" as the excuse to why they are not posting here as much???? .....good for you but WHO REALLY GIVES A DAYUM???? LOL Chances are if you have to brag about that sort of shyte here.....YOU ARE LYING.....LMAO. Anyone who knows anything knows you "keep the good stuff" to yourself. (smh @ the ONE who claims to have "spanked" a BAMA look-a-like......his fantasy world is taking over...LMAO)

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  6.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    Hello Good People, Wow....you all have been mighty busy here....lol. I had to actually read my email alerts to go back and catch up on the crazy comments...LMAO. I see the ladies are still on top of the madness and holding it down.....KUDOS, sisters-in-arms...(lol). Much love to Petite, friendly, BAMS (that MY new nickname for her...LOL), Sarah, Godiva and of course, MzBrown. Glad to see new "blood"....Welcome to Mia, Jenna, Sammy (and anyone else I missed.....I'll REPEAT..dang this has been a busy week..lol) Last but not least I must recognize the few (but wonderfully pleasant gentlemen that continue to grace us.... Danny, Tom and ICH (where art thou, buddy???...lol) To boots and menelik.....I maintain a healthy respect for your rights to your opinions but until you get a clue that not all people are meant to see things the way you do, I really don't have much to say to you LOL.....I would be remiss if I didn't mention good ole DAFFY here. Saw the last time he mentioned me he couldn't help but bring up some old stuff that NEVER actually happened....then to say I should stick to talking about hair???.....PFFT. Then flash forward a couple days....What the hail happened????....The ladies must have gotten his panties in such a bunch that he just completely lost what bit of sense he had. So much so that they no longer post his comments in here????....Gotta go check that email again....LOL. Until next time..... Peace and Blessings tatted2death P.S. For anyone that cares to know I have been a "metalhead" since age 10.....I was NOT into boys at the time so what the hail is DAFFY smoking. Only in his world would a woman have to have some dude get her "into" whatever she happens to like.....geesh...(lol)

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  7.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ Mia Oh, I apologize for the misunderstanding. I thought that baby was the blue eyed baby you were talking about. My bad. But I am glad that everyone got a chance to see the site at least. Well at least several people did. I enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing.

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  8.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ MzBrOwNSuGaR Thank you! I did have a good day at work. I hope that you had a good day yesterday and I hope that you will have a better day today. God Bless! Danny

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  9.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    God Morning Mia, I hope that yor father has a good visit here in the USA. You said it is hot have to agree with you. It is also humid here in Texas. It will not cool down for any length of time nowuntil around September. Just hope that the humidity goes down. It is great news about your baby. Congratulations to you ad your husband. God Bless! Danny

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  10.   Mia says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ Jenna I love spicy food girl. My father had me eating spicy food every since i was a young chickling, lol.The food came out great.

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  11.   Mia says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    Gm, everyone Damn its hot azz hell !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Anyway everyone i have a annoucment. I am pregnant and this is my first baby.I just found out this morning.My father is very excited and i called my mom and she is crying like i am still 13.

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  12.   Mia says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ jenna, How to post my pic on this site.

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  13.   Mia says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    Hey guys me and and my hubby pictures are not up yet. I was just giving you guys a blog that i thought was interesting. I am not on the Sarah interracial blog. I would like to post my pic on there. Sorry for the confusion. Friendly 13 . These pictures are just couples from around the world. Thanks

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  14.   Mia says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ friendly, Hey i am not on the blog that just a blog i joined. I WANT TO POST MY PIC ON HERE. SORRY FOR THE CONFUSION. Thanks

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  15.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @friendly13 I wached the video with Beyonce singing "America the Beautiful" and she was excellent. Did you notice Tom Hanks, he had his hand over his heart but it did not look like he was singing. I also looked at the Sara Taylor blog and it was beautiful the couples looked very happy. There are a lot of pictures on there as you said. Thanks for the link it was very refreshing. Have a good night or morning! God Bless! Danny

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  16.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @Jenna Welcome Jenna! Hope you enjoy your time on this blog. Friendly13 has been sharing links to some great music and she also is growing a garden and shares some recipes with us. I hope you enjoy. God Bless! Danny

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  17.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @Friendly Thanks for the warm welcome my dear,love the music too.Nice meeting you. @Mia beautiful family.... saw the link that friendly left. So you really cook the curry for your dad huh? I did some geera chicken and saffron rice,I am so a spicy food addict,I guess that is the Trini in me. Stay blessed my dear!

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  18.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ PetiteChick, Bamababe2k9, Godiva, MzBrOwNSuGaR, tatted2death, big eyes, Spice Princess, Mia, Jenna @Scoff/Sarah @Dannyco56, Sammy, Tom4Blaq, Rick Hayes, Tungata This is my good night song. Another one of my very favorites. The very brilliantly written "Let it be" by the Beatles sung by Paul McCartney (retrieved on May 9, 2010 from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9SgDoypXcI&feature=related)

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  19.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    Hey everybody, if you want to see cute pictures of Mia and her husband's baby check out the site she posted earlier. Plus, there are a lot, I mean a lot of interracial couple's in celebration. Also, if you want to see some hotties there are some really sexy and gorgeous white men on there too. I mean there are tons of pics on there and info too. Check it out. (retrieved on June 9, 2010 from http://www.interracialloveandspicebysara.blogspot.com/)

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  20.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ Dannyco56 You said "Whats a matter strike a nerve. I am not talking about black men Laurelton I am taklking about small minded men like you. Who think that you speak for all black men. You speak for yor self. You do not like black women dating outside of teir race. You wantto disparage them and try to intimidate them into submission. You are a pathetic small minded man. And I do not like to say man because you do not even act like one. You ar always throwing your snide comments and mimicing peopl eon this board because they do not agree with you. You curse at them when they do not listen to you or point out where you ar wrong. The same things you point out that white men have done in the past you are doing now or trying to do with these women. Instead of being proud to see these women get a better education and succeed you want to make fun of them and make light of their achievements. You are not any better then racist white men. And personally I can do without either....." ********** Hit the nail directly on the head.

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  21.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ MzBrOwNSuGaR Hey, a little baby bach music to go with laureltons bottle (retrieved on June 9 from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LRVQZWGBCb8).

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  22.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ Jenna Welcome! I hope you like music.

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  23.   Mia says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ jenna My mom is from florida and dad was born in Trinidad. I go visit my family aleast once a year. My dad just came in today from Trini. Thats whats up Jenna!!!!!!!! lol.

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  24.   Mia says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    @ MzBrOwNSuGaR , i agree brown sugar he is damage beyond repair. My purpose is to let all my sistahs no matter where they from they are queens and never settle for less. Your right they come on here with all this stank azz shit on their mind. Much love sis!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  25.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 10 Jun 10

    Comment by dannyco56 on 9 June 2010: @Mia "It is not all black men that act like this guy. The fact is it is just a small bunch of small minded individuals. " You are very right Danny and I try to constantly remind the ladies about that. I can count on one hand and still have fingers left over of how many come in here fighting. Hope you had a good work day Danny

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  26.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @ Mia, Don't sweat anything that Queen says. He says all that stuff cause he likes getting reactions so he can start with those long drawn out , so called rebuttals. Most of it I think he has kept a log of and just paste it over and over. Queens feeds on the drama( thus the nick Queens, as in Drama Queen). That's why he got so upset when the ladies stopped fighting with each other and when they were just exchanging sistuh talk. It all gets pretty old. I do wish it would give the crap a rest. I wish I was going to Hawaii Mia, good for you. I hope you have a gr8 time. It sounds like you have a very special man. Hang on to him g/f ^5!!

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  27.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @ Mia Wow cool your dad is a Trini, like me lol!

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  28.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    Comment by Mr Laurelton Queens: "wa wa wa booo hoo boo hoo.... They are constantly sticking their neck out for white men. All I hear is “crickets”. The articles SHOW YOU where the priorities of white men are when it comes to dating....... wa wa boo hoo" I put ya baby bottle on to warm, it'll be ready in a min sweetie.

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  29.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @Laurelton ROTFLMAO You are blind, as well as small minded. God Bless! Danny

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  30.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @All I have to go to work now. I hope that youo all havea great day. God Bless! Danny

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  31.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @Mia The curry chicken sounds good. Glad to hear your father is coming from Trinadad to see you. I hope you and he have a nice time together. God Bless! Danny

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  32.   Mia says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    Wow Queenie you have truly been hurt. What happen to you, ladies its really something wrong with this individual. He is messed up, Omg you applaud a white men that disrespect any race. Let me make this short. U are a waste of any women time!!!!!!!!! Wow Imus called your mother Nappy Headed. Queenie please go read a book because you are sick to its scary man please do not talk to me anymore. You was truly a waste of birth.

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  33.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @Laurelton Whats a matter strike a nerve. I am not talking about black men Laurelton I am taklking about small minded men like you. Who think that you speak for all black men. You speak for yor self. You do not like black women dating outside of teir race. You wantto disparage them and try to intimidate them into submission. You are a pathetic small minded man. And I do not like to say man because you do not even act like one. You ar always throwing your snide comments and mimicing peopl eon this board because they do not agree with you. You curse at them when they do not listen to you or point out where you ar wrong. The same things you point out that white men have done in the past you are doing now or trying to do with these women. Instead of being proud to see these women get a better education and succeed you want to make fun of them and make light of their achievements. You are not any better then racist white men. And personally I can do without either. I spent twenty-two years working along side my black brothers and most were the best men I have ever met. I have no problem with black men. I have a problem with you. You and your small mind that you feel so threatened by These ladies finding love out side of their race. You writing on this blog like these ladies belong to you! The reason the numbers are so low now is because black women have refused to date white men. Maybe tey felt intimidated by men like you or the white men that are just like you. Your thinking is sick and the times are changing yo can not change it so get use to it. Women are free to do what they want and love who they want. I think it is great if a woman falls in love with a man and it does not matter what race, religion or skin color. I hope that if you remain posting in here that you will respect other peoples right to have a different opinion then you. God Bless! Danny

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  34.   Mia says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    Anyway guys, i am cooking some curry chicken today my dad is coming up from trinidad and i decided to cook curry today for him. I have not seen him n two years i am so excited.

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  35.   Mia says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @ Queene Thats right i am proud of my thick kinky hair and what that say about your mother you dumbazz. Look at what they do attact a black women features. Wow these men look at their mother and think they are ugly.

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  36.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    No I have never heard of the group NXS (sp). Do share.

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  37.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    Okay a Beatels classic performed by Aerosmith. A clip from the movie Sgt. Pepper's Longey Hearts Club Band "retrieved on June 9, 2010 from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klvWtrtIRyI)

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  38.   Mia says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @dannyco56 You are absolutly correct danny. Your post hit the bulls eye. Much love God Bless

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  39.   Mia says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    Thanks friendly13 you stand correct sistah!

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  40.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @ Mia Enjoyed the blog. Thanks for sharing.

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  41.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @ PetiteChick, Bamababe2k9, Godiva, MzBrOwNSuGaR, tatted2death, big eyes, Spice Princess, Mia @Scoff/Sarah @Dannyco56, Sammy, Tom4Blaq, Rick Hayes, Tungata Good morning everyone on my list. I hope everyone got a chance to enjoy hearing Beyonce sing America the beautiful. At the end she says "We are one". Hey ya'll I got up early working around the house. Getting ready to make my final disasterous mess with the final tearout phase on my house. Not looking forward to it but I know it must be done for me to get to the final phase. Well, I am going to be in and out. Have lots of business to take care of and homework to do. I am a little behind on my reading. I know that if I just skip over Queenies comments I can get caught up pretty quickly with everyone. Mia, be encouraged. As long as Queenie has your attention he will think up all kinds of mess to keep up the negative dialogue. Been there. Anyway, girlfriend so what if you have a man that is economical. At least you all figure out a way to go see things and do things together. Queenie is probably a cheap skate and that is why he can't find a woman....black or white. Ya'll enjoy your trip, wish I could go but glad someone can.

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  42.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    @Mia It is not all black men that act like this guy. The fact is it is just a small bunch of small minded individuals. They seem to have a control problem and if they see they are losing control they start acting like ignorant children. They start calling names and mimicing individuals that they do not like. And you and I know what they do not like. THey do not like "their black women" to fall in love with men outside their race. If they do then they are called sellouts. All this while their brothers marry whoever they want but that is overlooked by these men because they do not have the intestinal fortitude to confront their brothers. I hope that your day is going well. Don't let small minded people get you down no matter what color they are and every race has them. God Bless! Danny

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  43.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    Good Morning Ms. friendly13, Ms. petitechick, Ms. Bamababe2k9, MzBrOwNSuGaR, Ms. tated2death, Ms. Godiva61, Scoff & Sarah, princess spice, Mia, Sammy, Tom4Blaq, and all reading this blog, Hope you all had a good night. God Bless! Danny

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  44.   Mia says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    This Queenie bitch is upset ladies look at his long paragraph of bullshit.Queenie please stop talking you are making my stomach hurt from laughing so hard. Poor little baby needs some attention look at him he is crying out for attention. Me and my friends are just laughing right now please stop.

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  45.   Mia says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    Wow u are truly a Official Hater. Your main concern is to bash black women for dating out their race. My opinion is my opinion and your opinion is yours. I just told your dumbazz this not about black men.Oh by they way we plan a trip every year dumbazz. Which i know your broke azz cant afford.

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  46.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    I am a proud white guy

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  47.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    YOU ILLITERATE DOPE

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  48.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    "NOT NO" laughing matter? Give it up!

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  49.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    What I really want is a loving single woman (race doesn't matter) living in or near Austin, Texas to E-Mail me at RICKH@C.O.R.E. COM,

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  50.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Jun 10

    I am 47, divorced (one daughter), and lonesome as hell.

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