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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   mudpuppysc says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 10

    I've dated black women..love their looks, bodies, brains, especially their sense of and appreciation of good humor. The ones I know work hard....I think too hard.....They shouldn't have to...I've always tried to be a respectful, good partner to the black women I have known in my life. I regret NONE of them.

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  2.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    @friendly13 You said; Before I comment on the recommended subject I first want to mention that I was in the army, briefly, from 1986 through 1990 for a four year term with honorable discharge. Looking back now I feel I should have retired. But felt at the time I needed to move on and find my place as a civilian. I returned from one of my trips to South Korea and was stationed at Fort Ord in December of 1990 until they began closing the fort. I was at the airfield. God Bless! Danny

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  3.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    @friendly13 I liked the the video and agree I agree wiith both you and Nawlunzguy it would have been nice to see her walk out the door and into the arms of the one she loved. But it makes people stop and think. I think if two people love each other that is all that is important. It does not matter about anything else. One day maybe that will be the way it will be. God Bless! Danny

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  4.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    Okay ya'll Michael Jackson sets it straight that it don't matter if you are black or white in this video and hit song (retrieved on June 13,2010 from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F2AitTPI5U0)

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  5.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    @ Nawludzguy I agree that it would have been nice to see the woman stand up more for what she believed in. I think that the words of the song contrast a little bit with the message that the video was trying to send. If she really loved the guy she would have chose him over her family and brother. If I could analyze the contrast I would say that Alicia was trying to send the message that interracial relationships stirr emotions in the people who say they love us but really only try to control us. We deserve to be loved and should not let anyone or anything keep us from that love.

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  6.   Nawlunzguy says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    Good day all! Interesting video @friendly13. Alicia Keys, Unthinkable video reminds me a lot of my initial attempts to date and meet someone outside my race as mentioned in a previous post. I have several 'reactions' to the video. My initial inclination is that Alicia "talks the talk, but doesn't walk the walk". What I mean by that is she doesn't 'cross the line' for her white guy when there's confrontation with the gent who plays her brother. I would have preferred to see her actually stand between the men, face the brother and use actions that indicate her choice for the (white) guy. The final parting scene also fails to convince me she is truly "Ready" as she repeats over and over in her lyrics. When she looks out her window and realizes it's her white guy, I would have preferred to see the video end with her running out the door and into the arms (and truck) of her white suitor. Overall I think it's great that interracial dating is the subject; the video does help address some of the difficulties and (continued) intolerance for folks desiring to date outside their race. Unfortunately, for me, it simply did not go sufficiently far enough to help convince me, she was truly "READY". -Just my humble opinion.

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  7.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    Goodmorning friendly13 and dannyco56 and everyone else! @friendly I saw the Alicia Keys video a while ago,wow I so loved it,the guy from 'One Tree Hill' looked great too!

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  8.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    @ dannyco56 Yes, I will have to bring that one back. First I want to bring another song to mind mentioned by a sister from earlier posts that are now in the archieves. I posted the link to th Alicia Keys song just a minute or so ago. Then in my next post I posed some questions for everybody to think about and hopefully to respond to. I will bring that Micheal Jackson video back shortly.

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  9.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    Hey everybody, I would like to discuss some of the issues in the video by Alicia after everyone has seen it and analyzed it a bit. What are the issues here? What are your thoughts? What are your feelings? What is she saying? Are you ready? Here is a copy of the lyrics to the song "You give me a feeling that I never felt before And I deserve it, I know I deserve it Its becoming something that's impossible to ignore Its what we make it I was wondering maybe Could I make you my baby If we do the unthinkable would it make us so crazy Or would it be so beautiful either way I'm saying If you ask me I'm ready, I'm ready, I'm ready If you ask me I'm ready, I'm ready, I'm ready Why give up before we try Feel the lows before the highs Clip our wings before we fly away I can't say I can't compare I'm suspended it the air Won't you come be in the sky with me I was wondering maybe Could I make you my baby If we do the unthinkable would it make us so crazy Or would it be so beautiful either way I'm saying If you ask me I'm ready If you ask me I'm ready" (retrieved on June 13, 2010 from www.directlyrics.com/alicia-keys-unthinkable--im-ready-lyrics.html)

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  10.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    @All Good Morning, I watched the interview on A&E Privat Sessions with Ms. Toni Braxton. I did not know but do now that her youngest son has Autism and that she had heart problems. She is still a very beautiful woman at 40 and she is very inteligen and doown to earth. She is going on a world tour soon. She is one that I would not mind going to see if I had te money. God Bless! Danny

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  11.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    @ all the white men who love the black women and black women who love them too Alicia Keys sings Unthinkable in this video about an interracial couple and their struggle to be with one another (retrieved on June 1, 2010 from http://www.barkbiteblog.com/2010/05/alicia-keys-colors-outside-the-lines-in-unthinkable-video.html)

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  12.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    @friendly13 Did you mention Michael Jackson Black or White? That is a good video especially when they start morphing the faces. I really enjoyed watching it again. God Bless! Danny

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  13.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    replace with: LOVE - is what I hope you FIND

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  14.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Jun 10

    Hi everyone! To my lovely sisters, each and every one. The gentlemen.....well you really ARE! I am so pleased that those of LIKE-MIND have been able to come to come together to discuss issues to your mutual benefit. PEACE - for my new found friends JOY - is what I wish for you LOVE - is what I hope you found Enjoy, know that I am honored to have made the acquaintence of some truly dynamic individuals. Blessings to the Board!!!!! *smooches for my sisters*

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  15.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @Ms, petitechick I missed your post on the 11th of June thank you forthe love and much much love back at you. God Bless! Danny

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  16.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @friendly13 You are so right! Enjoy yourselves! God Bless! Danny

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  17.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @All I think when a man goes out to eat with his girlfriend or wife the only eyes that he should focus on is the woman he is with. She is the only one that matters. You and your love are the only ones in the room. Every table could have people sitting at them but for you it should be as if they are not there only you and your love. God Bless! Danny

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  18.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ PetiteChick, Bamababe2k9, Godiva, MzBrOwNSuGaR, tatted2death, big eyes, Spice Princess, Mia, Jenna @Scoff/Sarah @Dannyco56, Sammy, Tom4Blaq, Rick Hayes, Tungata, Nawlunzguy, Dillon You know I feel that the attitude that any interracial couple should have when we go out and people stare is one that says we are just as good as anyother couple. We should never let them think that we are intimidatesd or inferior to anyother couple. Like Dannyco56 said just don't pay them any attention and enjoy yourselves.

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  19.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @Dillon I am happy for you and your girlfriend and wish you both much happiness ands love togethe. Do not worry what others think or say. There are always going to be small minded people who are going to try to intimidate and discourage you both but you do not pay any attention to them. The only one that should matter is your girlfriend. Oh and welcome to this blog. I hope to see more posts from you. God Bless! Danny

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  20.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @Nawlunzguy Always be proud of your girlfriend and when you marry your wife. She should be your whole world what anyone else thinks should not matter. Also very good post and I agree we all should be able to live our live with who ever we chose. I am hopeful as I see many black men and white wives or girlfriend and also many black women and white husbands or boyfriends. I think it is a beautiful thing. After all love is blind! God Bless Danny

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  21.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @Jenna I hope one day hopefully in my lifetime I will see this in America as well. I think I can say that most who are still posting on this blog today feel the same way. I agree with you we are all from te same race (human race) nothing else matters or nothing else should matter as you said. Thank you so much for your insight and your views. God Bless! Danny

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  22.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @friendly13 Thank you for responce. Yes in the 80's things were getting a little better but in the 50's and 60's we were still pretty well segrgated. Even though the Supreme Court decision in Brown Vs Board of Education in 1954 was a rulling for desegregation the schools still seemed to be segragated. I think even into the 70's. It was self segrgation and even through the 80's and 90's even today I see a lot of self segregation. In the military it seemed that when the companies got together for orginization days we would self segregate unless we were actually playing some sport. We worked well together and always seemed to get along well but during recreational time or our off time we would seperate along skin color. I see today that we are doing better but it is still there though not as bad. There are always going to be those who do not want change and will do all they can to stop it. But wwe have to be strong enough not to let one or a few individuals intimidate us into staying segregated. I am proud of my black brothers and sisters who have served and are still serving in the military, and I hope that you (each of you that reads this) will not be offended by me calling you my brothers and sisters. I say it in humbleness knowing that I can never know what your life has been like but beliving that we might together make things better. God Bless! Danny

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  23.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ Friendly Just read your post,good point there girl!

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  24.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ Dannycro56 and Nawlunzguy Wow interesting experiences you guys had in your lives. I do agree that how we were raised affects how we view and deal with things and each other. I am what 'black' my heritage is Native Indian(the Carib tribe to be exact)and African.In other words I am 6 of one and half a dozen of the other(laughing)! I live in the Caribbean, Trinidad to be exact, population 1.3 million approximately. People of African descent about 35%, people of East Indian descent 36% and the rest is Syrian,Chinese, Japanese and Europeans. Growing up was not like how it was for you Americans we had our problems but they were minor,everyone got along despite differences in race or ethnicities. I am not saying that we did not have the racists,but they were mainly ignored. We celebrate our differences and try to do what is best for our country. As for dating and marriages among the races, that was not and still is no big deal to us. Black or east Indian parents who did not like their kids marrying each other learned the hard way about racism (their kids would run away and do it against parent wishes) so for us that is no longer and issue.Point is when I read and see in the media race relations in the U.S., I ask myself and this is a first world nation? So much technology and opportunities for personal progress,but yet so much hate amongst it's peoples. Black people this and white people that ,asian people this and hispanic people that! Aargh! At the end of the day we all are just people....We date people,we marry people and when we reproduce we make little people okay!(Smiling) So to each his own,there is only one race and that is the 'human' race! May the blessings be!

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  25.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ Nawlunzguy Don't be shocked when people stare at you when you are with a black woman. Most of the looks are directed at us. When people see black women with white men it makes them stand in awe because white men are thought in the minds of society to be only interested in white and other women and not us. So people start thinking wow, she must be really special. Most people are afraid to bother white men as much as they would a black man with a white woman because white men are thought to have the power in society. I hope that no one misunderstans what I am trying to say here. When a black woman is seen with a white man people put her in a higher status in their mindset. It is sort of like being validated in their minds. They think wow she got a white mans attention. But there are definitely black men who hate because they tend not to get the same kind of attention. I think someone said earlier, black men date white women because it makes them feel superior. That is often times so true. But when they see a black woman being picked by a white man it eats them up to know that the man who is considered to be in charge and at a racial advantage in american society picks a black woman it gives the black woman status that a black man feels he has been working to get. This is something that I want to help my sons who are black to overcome. I want them to know that they are as good as any other man and that they don't need to date a person of another race to be validated. I want them to date people they love because they love them and not because of an inferiority complex. So all I can say to you is when white men start being seen with black women in public, dating them, marrying them, having children with them, things will and are changing. When they stare ya'll just hold your heads up and let everyone see just how happy you are to be together. No one is going to throw a white man out of anywhere, they ain't crazy. They will never forget you though when you leave. Some of them may even try to start doing what they have wanted to all along too because of your example.

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  26.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ dillon I apologize, somehow I overlooked your message earler and did not realize you were with us until I saw Mia's response to your message. First, I would like to welcome you and let you know I am glad you joined us even though there were a few hateful messages that you saw. I can relate, I felt the same way when I first started on the site too. But I am glad I stayed because I have met a lot of great people and supporters of interracial dating. You don't have to explain anything to haters. They just hate to try to stop you from following your heart. You keep doing what you are doing and things will change. There are lots of white men who would like to date black women but think black women will not like them or give them a chance. When they see you and your companion that gives them hope. Be encouraged.

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  27.   Nawlunzguy says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    On a different topic, I'd like to pose a question and would dearly enjoy learning the opinions or thoughts of others. I still find it a little awkward to approach a black woman for the purpose of getting to know her. I'm not intimidated and the possibility of rejection doesn't bother me when declined. However, I've wondered if perhaps cultural differences were hindering a successful attempt at a date. Some of my black male friends and colleagues have offered their thoughts. However, their advice has run the gambit from using scripted 'pick-up' lines to something they have coined as a willingness to "break bread". So I am laying it out there for comment. Anyone willing to take on this thought? Are there regional customs, family traditions, or other differences that, if known, would make the approach to meet a little easier and successful?

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  28.   Nawlunzguy says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    Greetings all and thanks so much for the warm welcome to the board. I'm delighted to offer my own personal insights and opinions, and will always remain respectful to those who differ in their views. I grew up in the gulf south during a time when dating outside one's race was heavily frowned upon (and to be frank, in some areas likely still is [unfortunately]). It was considered taboo, to say the least. Although my family has always preached values of tolerance and acceptance, the social stigma was present nonetheless, and to bring home a 'black' woman would not be cause for celebration. I'll never forget my first date with a black woman (gosh I so dislike distinguishing someone by 'color'. Is there a more politically correct/sensitive description? help, help). We dined at a restaurant she enjoyed; one that was pretty much frequented by exclsuively black patrons. When we entered, EVERY head turned and the silence was nearly deafening. I could literally feel EVERY eye in the place staring me/us down. I kept wondering if we would be exposed to negative comments or even refused service. On a comical note (at least to me), and years later, I do recall my mom asking me at one point if I would ever date, marry, or settle down with a 'white' girl. My response then, as it is now, was "no mom, sorry". Times have changed somewhat. Sure there's still folks who hold dear to the belief that one should not date, marry, or have children with partners from outside their race. But more and more, those barriers are being torn down and we have become a 'blended' society. I still respect everyone's right to choose and hope that someday our society will no longer see 'color' but focus on the 'person'. I have never understood the prejudice displayed between races or cultures; it is truly a foreign concept for me. I. too, am grateful that times are changing and barriers being torn down. We all have a right to be happy and to share our lives with the person of our own choosing. Have a terrific weekend all!

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  29.   Mia says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ Dillion, your statement is real and sincere. Keep it up because you have to remember you love her and she loves you and nothing else matter.

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  30.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ Dannyco56 You said "...I was thinking a subject that has not been talked about much is how we were raised and the times we were raised in has affected how we view things and each other. I grew up in the 50’s and 60’s and my mother always taught us to respect our elders, people who were different, and people who had different beliefs then we did..." Before I comment on the recommended subject I first want to mention that I was in the army, briefly, from 1986 through 1990 for a four year term with honorable discharge. Looking back now I feel I should have retired. But felt at the time I needed to move on and find my place as a civilian. Yes, as far as the time growing up for me was between 1967 and now. I was a teen in the 80's. I really enjoyed the disco age. I grew up in the town I live in now. When I was in the army, I was stationed in California. Ft Ord. I never got a chance to go overseas though. I grew up in a time when segregation was illegal and frowned up on by the government and the general public. I never had to sit at the back of a bus eithr. I felt equal according to the laws. However,as I grew up I learned very soon that there were still a handful of people who would try to be superior to me because of my race. They would do things to prevent me from getting or keeping a job. The thing that I like about the timeframe came up in is that there were laws in place that protected me from discrimination due to race and gender. I grew up in a time when women have the right to vote and feel empowered to vote for people that I think will continue to support the rights of all people. I have seen a lot of changes. However, I came up in a time when the Jeffersons was very popular. Do you all remember the interracial couple on that? In earlier dialogue, we did discuss famous people and famous accounts of interracial relationships. The woman on there who was married to the white man was married to a white man in real life. That was how she was able to convince them she was right for the role. I am glad for the time that I grew up. So many have paved the way for interracial relationships.

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  31.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @All Good Morning, I hope that everyone had agood nights sleep. I have a lot ofthings to do today so will be in and out, mostly out..LOL @Ms. petitechick, good to see your post hope that you have been well. @Nawlunzguy Welcome to the board, hope you will stick around. I agree everyone should be able to choose who they want and we all should respect the others choices. @MzBrOwNSuGaR I will enjoy it even if it is filled with work. Thank you for wishing me a an enjoyable weekend. I hope that your weekend is enjoyable as well. Many blessings to you. @friendly13 You are always cooking up some delicious food. I hope you and your guests enjoy. I am sure they will. I was thinking a subject that has not been talked about much is how we were raised and the times we were raised in has affected how we view things and each other. I grew up in the 50's and 60's and my mother always taught us to respect our elders, people who were different, and people who had different beliefs then we did. Something else we might do is provide a little history of where we have been in our lives places we have lived in the USA and other countries. I was born in Iowa and my family and I lived there until I was two years old. My mother and father took us out to california and we lived their until I was eight. My mother and Father split up when I was eight and a few months later my mother had a new man and they were married in Vegas. It was a short time later that we left California for Oregon and we did a lot of traveling around until I was about twelve. We lived in Oregon, Idaho, and Washington state and finally ended up in Oregon and settled down for a few years. I finished middle school and went on to high school in a small town in Oregon not far from Idaho. I ended up dropping out of high school. I though I could d better working a job but soon found a good job was not easy to find. Lived in a few other places in Oregon with Mother and yonger brothers and sisters wrking here and there. Finally at seventeen I decided was time to quit being a burden on my mother and go out on my own. Went to Illinois a small town there and found work and ended up marring first wife in a small town there in Illinois. That marriage did not last very long and not long after divorcing I enlisted into te Army. I had my basic and AIT in Kentucky, my first duty station wa in Georgia. I got my GED there then went to Virgina to change my MOS. I wennt to Colorado after successfully passing the training and tests for my new MOS. From tere went overseas for a year then returned to Colorado for a little overa year before going back overseas for four years. I extended to have four years in country. I returned to the US with Family and was stationed in California for about three years. Went back overeseas takeing family with me and spent about seventeen months in country beforeour unit was retired and a new unit took our place ad we all left to come back to to the USA. My final duty station was here in Texas and that is where I retired and still live. There is a lot of details I left out but this describes my travels. The one thing I will mention so as to clarify, is that the only country I have ever been stationed in outside of the US was South Korea. Now you know alittle bit more about me.:) God Bless! Danny

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  32.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    I'm up Rick. Waiting for my kitchen counter tops now. Got lumber first thing.

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  33.   Member says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    I would love to love a woman...white, black, Hispanic, or Asian. I would love an "E-Mail."

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  34.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    Okay,when they made the group Guns and Roses it looks like they only accepted the sexiest men they could find with sexy voices to go with it. My my. They know they sexy too ya'll.

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  35.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ PetiteChick, Bamababe2k9, Godiva, MzBrOwNSuGaR, tatted2death, big eyes, Spice Princess, Mia, Jenna @Scoff/Sarah @Dannyco56, Sammy, Tom4Blaq, Rick Hayes, Tungata, Nawlunzguy Good morning everybody. I will be having leftovers from yesterday and doing lots of carpentry. I hope th rain eventually stops. But my garden is loving it. Okay, how about some music to start the day... the sexy Guns and Roses classic Sweet Child of mine done live with interview with the sexy SLASH(retrieved on June 12, 2010 from http://www.youtube.com/user/slash?blend=1&ob=4#p/a/f/1/x5X9qcLYyPI)

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  36.   Member says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    tyi, aRE YOU AWAKE THIS MORNING?

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  37.   dillon says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    i have read many hurtful and sad things on this site. i am a white man who is dating a beautiful black woman who is the light of my life. i love everything about her and she makes my life wonderful. yet there are those who would say that what we have is bad... or that we are both "sell outs" this is deeply sad on both parties. i just flat out only like black women. yet the stigma that we are sell outs is one that needs to be dropped. i dont give a s**t about my race nor hers... i care of her and only her. the idea that races are important is stupid to me. people are important not the parties they belong to. i have been with her for 3 years and we have been bothered by so many people. black men seem to somtimes outright hate us just because we just have a preference in who we are attracted to. so i close with asking why do we recive such hate? ps. i forgot to say "i do not mean to offend anyone with my comments"

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  38.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ PetiteChick, Bamababe2k9, Godiva, MzBrOwNSuGaR, tatted2death, big eyes, Spice Princess, Mia, Jenna @Scoff/Sarah @Dannyco56, Sammy, Tom4Blaq, Rick Hayes, Tungata, Nawlunzguy Good night everyone. I will be looking forward to reading more about "Why white men love the black women" tomorrow along with the Cooking, beauty, and romance thoughts. Hopefully some more handsome hot white men will get on here and tell us more about why they enjoy relationships with us. ttyl

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  39.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ Nawlunzguy You said "...As a caucasian male who has often dated non-caucasian females, my reason is simple: I am genuinely attracted to the physical features as well as possessing a genuine interest in diverse culture, food, etc. offered by those I have had friendships and relationships with...." ********************************** Thank you for sharing why you enjoy interracil dating. Yes, you are not alone. Most of us on here came to hear positive reasons about "Why white men love the black women". We have been waiting so long inbetween. We keep this blog alive by sharing positive things inbetween discussions about "Why white men love the black women." Fortunately there have been a couple of white men who will stand up and share their insight. I am glad you hae joined us and hope that you will not leave too soon. Welcome

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  40.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    Hello everyone just passing by with well wishes for the weekend,hope you guys have loads of fun! May the blessings be!

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  41.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 12 Jun 10

    @ Jenna: Nice meeting you as well. @ Pettite: Heyyy gurlll benn wondering where you were @ Danny: Hope you enjoy your weekend. It appears this will be my third busy weekend in a row. Quite frankly I izzz tired, lol. I plan to have some quiet me time next week and nobody better not evennnn call me, lol. @ Sarah: So nice to see you, as always. You had a very nice post on one of the ohter blogs some time back, that I thought was so very good. I intend to repaste it here later. @ friendly: Gurll you go wit yo grilling self, lol. Have fun and enjoy. @ Nawlunzguy: Hi to ya. I guess you could say things sorta got off track from the topic here, lol to put it mildly. Still not too late for others to come post. I noticed this topic began in August of 2007. Long time.

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  42.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    I hope everyone enjoys their weekend. I am getting ready to grill again. Chicken wings and beef ribs, w/seasoned green beans and baked beans. I have invited friends to come by and share when everything is ready. I wish you all could be there. Well, got to get busy. Check back later on.

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  43.   Nawlunzguy says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    Greetings everyone. Correct me if I'm naive, but I thought the posts here were intended to share ideas about dating outside one's "race". It's rather disappointing to read comments that seem to hinge upon insults than the offering of objective thoughs. As a caucasian male who has often dated non-caucasian females, my reason is simple: I am genuinely attracted to the physical features as well as possessing a genuine interest in diverse culture, food, etc. offered by those I have had friendships and relationships with. It seems odd in this day and age that so many have no tolerance or acceptance for an individual's right to choose whom they might love, marry, date. The 'old' boundaries and physical limitations to limit our choices in a mate no longer exist. Personally, I encourage diversity and do not share the view that we must adhere to maintaining a pure 'bloodline' based on religion, creed, race. Everyone should have a right to choose; not everyone will agree with my opinions or beliefs. That's OK; to each his/her own choosing. However, there should still be a willingness to be tolerant and respectful of the choices made by others. Well, that's my 2 cents worth. Thanks for reading.

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  44.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    @ PetiteChick, Bamababe2k9, Godiva, MzBrOwNSuGaR, tatted2death, big eyes, Spice Princess, Mia, Jenna @Scoff/Sarah @Dannyco56, Sammy, Tom4Blaq, Rick Hayes, Tungata GOOD MORNING EVERYBODY.... Anyone have anything intellectually stimulating to share? Recipes, beauty ideas, romance ideas, music to share, etc. I just got back in from mowing the lawn and I am about to dive in a very hot bubble bath...ran out of sea salt though...bummer. I'll be checking back for some insight. Hey congratultions Mia on the good news about the baby. I am so excited for you.

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  45.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    Good Morning to all of the ladies and the gentlemen on this Friday morning. @ All I hope all are well. I have noticed Ms. Petitechick has not posted since the 8th, hope all is well with you Ms. Petitechick. @Ms. friendly13 I am with you on the curry chicken and Geera chicken sounded delicious. @Scoff/Sarah, It is good to know that you and Scoff are enjoying yourselves and hope that your travels are safe. @All You all have a great weekend. I will be pretty busy myself but if I have time I will check on the blog if not I will check in Monday fr sure. God Bless! Danny

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  46.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    What a beautiful day it is! To all the sister friends, MUCH, MUCH LOVE! Friendly13, Godiva, Tatted, MzBrownSugar, Big Eyes, Mia, Jenna, Scoff/Sarah, *smooches* To the GENTLEMEN: Dannyco, Tom4Black, Sammy, hey y'all. Just dropped in to say hello and to wish the Board much, much love! Regards.....

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  47.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    @ Mia & Jenna Hey ladies, I am interested in the Curry Chicken and the Geera Chicken. What do they consist of. Are you willing to share your recipes? These dishes made my mouth water. I don't believe I have ever tried them. Do share.

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  48.   Scoff/Sarah says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    Just dropped by to say hello, to all my special friends, as I still follow this blog and enjoy all the post. I hope that in about 2 weeks I'll be back home to my old routine, which includes seeing more of Scoff, and letting him pamper me a bit. Yes us old folks still have some romantic ideas. Love to all and may every day be Blessed Sarah

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  49.   Jenna says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    @Mzbrownsugar Thanks for having me and nice to meet you too! Hope your day was interesting!

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  50.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 11 Jun 10

    Hi Jenna, Welcome aboard.

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